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Simply "Pete"...

10/29/2015

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Picture"Los Curritos" was their artistic name as they sang and dance.
Narciso Pedro Pablo Curras, or simply “Pete”, was born on August 23, 1935 in La Habana, Cuba. At 11 years old his dad sent him, his sister Emily and his mother Soledad to New York to study and learn English.

He moved to Miami as a teenager, where he met my mother Noemy Suarez and got married at 20 years old. He joined the National Guard and worked for the newspaper The Miami Herald. In 1965 he was transferred to Puerto Rico as the Circulation Director for the newspaper “El Mundo” where he worked for almost 2 decades and held the position of Vice-President before he resigned. In May 1983 he established his company and publication “La Estrella de Puerto Rico”, a weekly newspaper that gave a platform to the western cities of the Island becoming the most recognized regional newspaper.


His gift of leadership was evident as he held important and noteworthy positions during his life. These opportunities opened many doors and placed him in roles where he made significant impact in many people’s lives. His leadership contributions ranged from representing Puerto Rico as a delegate in the Olympic games in Mexico in 1968 for the Boxing Federation to becoming the President of Puerto Rico’s Chamber of Commerce in 1979-1980.
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President of Puerto Rico's Chamber of Commerce 1979-1980.
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His enthusiasm and headship tapped in PTA’s, in the 1970’s Charismatic Renewal, Parochial Board and lead the Family Rosary Devotion Movement for his church. He was a Lions Club member, Fund Raiser Organizer for Three Kings gift distributions for the less fortunate and promoter of youth groups such “Viva la Gente” in the Island. He was a brilliant leader, energetic organizer, a competent mediator and a clever negotiator and was recognized by many in innumerable ways.
Of all his accomplishments what he cherished the most were the people he met. I witnessed people of all walk of life greet him with authentic smiles. He had a way to make others feel special. He always had time to share a story, a song and a good laugh. He shared his success with family and friends.

At the end, he left all the trophies, titles and recognitions behind. He packed a small luggage, his dog “Cha Cha” and his briefcase and left. It had all been accomplished, he lived a full life and as he would say… he did it his way.

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Dad
We miss you very much!
You are woven into so many areas of each of our lives.
You were so simple, so driven and determined.
You lived as you believed, found strength in people and shared
   everything you had.
You were a romantic, liked to build memories, created magic
   moments and made dreams come true.
You taught us to give ourselves permission to sing,
   to dance and to laugh.
You encouraged us to speak up, to fight through, to have courage
   and never give up.
You showed us that it’s better to move forward without fear
   than to regret not moving at all.
You affirmed us to climb higher and to go deeper and to
   stay true to ourselves along the way.
You believed in not judging but to find the best in each other,
   to forgive and to forget.
You are our own “Profe”,  our own “Don Quijote” whose quest
   was to dream the impossible dream.
Know that the world is better because you “strove with your last
   ounce of courage to reach the unreachable star”.
We thank you for the sacrifices.  We will see each other again.

 
Many have proven that the answer to happiness is not in having money, ideal bodies, or exclusive perks. If all we own, or how we look, or what we make or where we’ve been doesn’t matter at the end, why do we cling to all this?

Every human being’s experience from the moment he is born to his death is unique. There is no formula or cookie cutter solution to a “perfect” life. It is in the encounter with others that a spark of light can happen and insight can be shared. It is through personal experience that we can have the opportunity to awaken to the true meaning and purpose of our lives. And if we have been created to do good works, as we experience these moments let us share a story, a song and a smile with each other.

 
(Ephesians 2:10; Philippians 3:7-8)

JUST A FEW SONGS WHICH REMIND US OF DAD.
Click on the album and enjoy the music.

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   LETTER by David given to dad 3 months before his accident, on February 2011.

To a great man:
   The following intentions flow from heart and lead to the soul.
   As a young man searches for a better understanding of life and the details that it holds within, it is easy to distract yourself on material possessions that at the end we do not partake with into a life of eternity. Cars, houses, clothes, we leave behind. Spirit, memories, lessons, and blood stay forever.
   From an early age we are conditioned to love physical possessions and forget about the godly things we are given free of worldly cost. We are simply born with the best things in life, FOR FREE.  Love does not cost a mother to give her child, spiritual adoration cost nothing to possess. But why does humanity constantly searching for a dream of wealth and worldly possessions when the most important possessions are given to us since birth?
   From dust we come, and as dust we will go, but our love and lessons stay from generation to generation. The memories of a grandfather working through sleepless nights to give a better future for a family will never be forgotten. The father that through trials and tribulations stays true to a love of a wife regardless of the distractions put beside him, does not go unnoticed. A mother walking through sand on a scorching hot day, with a child in each hand, broken stroller while carrying groceries is a thought that will burn memories into the toughest of minds.
   What good is life if we do not share the truth behind it? The truth is that love will heal broken souls and lessons will lay the foundation to a family.


Life is a long lesson in humility.  - Sir James M. Barrie
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life. It goes on.- Robert Frost


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WORDS at wake service by Gaby
   So this is a bit funny because, although I can write, it’s tough for me to get down to emotions.
I had started to write and someone reminded
me that this is not a bio or about his
accomplishments (which are abound)– it’s about the feelings! It’s about what will actually be embedded in our hearts, is the kind of person he embodied and how he made us feel.
    Fond memories from Huevos Rancheros in the mornings, to spending time just sitting with you and shooting the breeze. The amazing provider that he was, the sometimes ridiculous yet precious moments we shared with him.  His unconditional love and all the joy he brought.  And how he would drop everything for anyone of us and offer his support. 
    His work ethic was infectious and I know it always pushed us to do a little better and better each day.  How he reiterated that as long as you know the risks and consequences (and after of course about the 10K chances he gave you sometimes) you could do ANYTHING.
    A little unconventional, where the suit was often substituted by his “Guayabera” and his outfit of choice at times was the striped-shirt, plaid shorts, black dress socks and sandals (oh yes..) and although embarrassing at the time – I understand that it was my unconventional Dad that made everything else seem TOO conventional. A determined, hard working and courageous man.  His sacrifices for family and those he loved where out of this world. He saved my life when cancer came knocking at my door…Mom & Dad where there at the drop of a hat but same urgency would have happened I propose if it was anyone one of us.
    The best of it all was when he decided to go back to “basics” and chose to move to Orlando just recently.  All he had were his clothes, his dog, briefcase and cigarettes (and of course a Hawaiian themed shirt).  Also how his last days with us, were not only wonderful for him (away from hospitals, and surrounded by those he loved) but for us as well!
    All he kept repeating over was “yo te amo mucho” along with a few “cono!!!s, of course)…when things were not going his way. He was Dad, Suegro, Abuelo, “The Godfather”, Tio Pitin, Big Brother to many, mentor and friend.
 
   To Dad – cono – we’ll miss you Cuco, but we know you’re in a better place so cheers to you and to one amazing adventure you had.  Thanks for sharing it with us.   God Bless.

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We are just passing through.

10/14/2015

 
PictureEddy celebrated his 29th Birthday with David and received the best gift.
My visit home felt like a dream. Spending time with dad was a blessing. To see my sisters caring for dad gave me so much peace. The next few days did not slow down for any of us.  My sister Lucy flew back to work to Chicago and to arrange to come back soon. Then my mother’s blood pressure elevated so high she was taken to the hospital to what my sister Noemy pleaded her not to die. Mom flew back to Ohio, drove to Michigan to visit her doctor to turn right back as soon as she could. My brother Carlos and wife Haydee, who were visiting their grandchild in Michigan went to the hospital to check on Haydee's risen blood pressure then flew in to Orlando to be with dad.

In the heart of all this we were celebrating birthday, after    birthday, after birthday.
Celebrating life continued to be the theme. That same day, June 15th, Eddy came to the hospital with 2 cupcakes. He wanted to celebrate his birthday with David, just as they had done so many times when they were kids. All of a sudden and to our surprise, after 36 days of silence, we heard David’s first sound. Eddy had asked David to speak for him and he received an “Aaaaaaaa” as his 29th birthday gift. You could hear kisses, tears, laughter and everyone asking David to continue speaking over and over again. We were all yearning to hear his voice again. We filled our phones with pictures and videos recording the moments.

The Hospital’s priest Father Dominic and Father Martin had become regular visitors and a true blessing for all of us. They would pray over David for healing in such a powerful and loving way. They also cheered at this new milestone.

On the evening of Thursday June 16th I felt sad to the point of making a note in my journal about this deep sadness. There were so many emotions that could explain having a heavy heart to what I prayed about it and fell asleep.

My son Fernando drove to Miami that evening because he had been casted for a movie which part of it would be filmed in Miami so he needed to work that weekend. He arrived at the hospital around 3:00 am.  He woke me up and we left the room. We walked downstairs to get a cup of coffee. Half asleep, I remember being so happy to see him. Then he gently embraced me and told me my father had just passed away. I recall just looking at his eyes trying to register his words. I wanted to believe I was dreaming and in disbelief we cried together. Fernando then related that as he was leaving around 10:00 pm that evening, dad had asked him to tell David that he sent him all his love. Then as he drove down south, around 1:00 am he received the news that dad had passed.  About 1 hour later, Jorge who was in Miami that weekend, came to the hospital after getting into an accident for rushing to be with me after hearing the news.

My sisters and brother said that he had a peaceful smile and was so serene that Noemy had to hear the confirmation from the nurse before she could accept dad was gone. The rosary David had giving him remain at his bedside all the time and they placed it in his hands as he rested in peace. “Thank you Lord for such a peaceful death”.
After discussing with one of my sisters that David couldn’t complaint of his suffering because he could not speak, this reality influenced dad to offer up his own pain for David.

In my heart I knew I couldn’t communicate dad’s passing to David and I prayed and asked the Lord to guide me for the appropriate time. A part of me cheered at the sounds, which David had uttered two days ago, and on the other hand I grieved my father’s voice as it silenced forever.

Life on earth is short but we will live forever. This is what we believe. We will see each other again in a place that Jesus has prepared for us. This is our Hope. We will praise our Creator together with hymns of joy. This is our Faith.

(Hebrews 11:16; Luke 2:29-32)


Lucy’s poem to dad:

Oh, my troubled Love,
In your last days
You gave all you had
To the ones you loved so much.
 
A precious sacrifice
To exchange your breath
With that of a younger soul
I know it in my heart.
 
Oh so desolate a garden
One more glance at the branches you left behind
fills one with the strength and
inspiration to carry on.

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Dad and Lucy.

Scares, Laughs and Proposals.

10/1/2015

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MIRACULOUS INVOCATION TO
ST. THERESE

O Glorious St. Therese, whom Almighty God has raised up to aid and inspire the human family, I implore your Miraculous Intercession. You are so powerful in obtaining every need of body and spirit from the Heart of God. Holy Mother Church proclaim you "Prodigy of Miracles... the greatest saint of modern times". Now I fervently beseech you to answer my petition (petition here) and to carry out your promises of spending heaven-doing good on earth... of letting fall from Heaven a Shower of Roses. Little Flower, give me your childlike faith, to see the face of God in the people and the experiences of my life, and to love God with full confidence. St. Therese, my Carmelite sister, I will fulfill your plea "to be made known everywhere" and I will continue to lead others to Jesus through you. Amen.

It had now been a month since the accident. Dad asked about David’s progress all the time. Sometimes, while David slept, I would walk around the Hospital praying to Saint Therese of Lisieux the Little Flower for her constant intercession for David and dad. I was definitely running on Dunkin coffee. I counted 8 cups of coffee one day.  Leaving the beeping sounds behind, the Hospitals’ small garden provided different scenery, which offered at the same time some mental rest. At this time, I would connect with my sisters and my father and would listen to all the details from back home. As dad left Winter Park hospital, he was discharged to receive assistance from Hospice at home. His health condition continued to deteriorate. He was dependent on oxygen, and unable to do most ordinary tasks. My sisters attended to him and spoiled him as much as they knew how. Brother in law Hector would take him for walks in his wheel chair and a fresh brewed cup of coffee.

Gaby drove to Miami on the 9th of June and decided that I would take the night off, sent me out to my Aunt Flor’s house and she stayed with David. She recorded every detail in the journal all night long and head back home to care for dad the following day along with my other sisters Lucy and Noemy. The evening she arrived, dad became very lethargic and after episodes of what was later believed were mini strokes, prompted my sisters to call me and suggested we quickly drove home because dad was dying. There was a long moment of disbelief in my mind. I asked God to allow me to speak to my father and tell him how much I had always loved him. If he could just wait for me to get there, I thought. Mom and I drove and recited the “Memorare” prayer the entire trip to Casselberry and arrived at 2:30am.

As I flew to open the front door, we found my sisters sleeping on the floor of the living room next to dad’s hospital bed. With the noise, they woke up and explained how moments earlier, each one was crying and saying their “goodbyes” when all of a sudden dad looked at them and wondered why they were crying because he wasn’t dying. We laughed together and a big weight was lifted off my shoulders. I was so happy to see him after being away for so long.

The next day we helped dad into the van and drove to Bubbalous for his favorite Bar-B-Q treats and afterwards went for some Cold Stone ice cream. He had a blast. I loved seeing him smile again. He was in heaven with all his daughters together. To top it all off on Saturday evening, after 2 decades of separation, dad proposed to mom over a glass of white wine.

Before leaving back to Miami on Sunday morning I said every word of encouragement I could think of to dad so that he would work hard at getting better. I promised dad I would tell David that he kept with him the wooden rosary David had given him the year before. As I told him I would be back soon to see him, he looked straight at me and simply said that my place was with David, to go in peace and to tell David that he loved him very much. I insisted for him to fight back to health, gave him a big kiss, a big hug and said goodbye.

We activate many saints to intercede for us in prayer every day. Intercession is a prayer of petition, which leads us to pray as Jesus did. (CCC 2634) Since Abraham, intercession – asking on behalf of another has been characteristic of a heart attuned to God’s mercy. (CCC 2635)
*CCC = Catechism of the Catholic Church


(1 Timothy 2:1; Revelation 8:3)
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    My son, David Arroyo  and I, Ana Curras, collaborate together. This is our story. Our story because we are connected. We all are. When you hurt, I hurt, when you succeed, I succeed, when you have joy, I do too. It's in our design as human beings. Our story is intended to give hope, joy, encouragement and light. We pray to be inspired by our Creator, guided by Jesus Christ, moved by the Holy Spirit and accompanied by our Mother Mary.
    We believe.

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